bradfromusa
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Hi,
I want to write this profile as if I am speaking it, and so I will just write what comes to mind and I will do so with total honesty. I will start by simply saying that this site is totally new to me and to be honest, so is the whole concept of posting anything online. Actually, I only just discovered this site, and I have no idea whether it is a place to meet quality people or not. But, as I mentioned, I will just be honest and see where it leads.
As for who I am and what I am all about, I guess that I should start by saying that I am in my 40's and have dated women my whole life, starting in junior high school. But things changed just a little over a year and a half ago when I had the first of2 male/male relationships. More about those in a minute but first, more about me....someone that is not only new to a site like this but maybe more importantly and to the point, is also pretty new to the whole guy/guy thing.
From a work/profession standpoint, I travel the world on business. I am the president of a management company that has several subsidiaries in the entertainment, travel, immigration and marketing fields. I work hard and am regarded as intelligent, giving, caring, and masculine. I was involved in professional sports beginning just after high school, which was a wonderful experience. This is also1 thing that helped lead to my present career, including the part of our business that works with athletes and entertainers.
I am probably among the most loyal and caring people to be found, and sometimes, I am told, I am too caring and sensitive to the needs of others. I have a number of hobbies and things that interest me, including the entertainment industry, politics, world affairs, traveling, and more.
To be honest, interaction with men is still very very new to me, but also, I do know now with 100% certainty that it is what I want. 1 reason that I know and realize this is because I have recently and for the first time had2 male/male relationships, which really opened up my eyes a lot. The first was with a 19 year old guy who is in the entertainment business and the other with a 21 year old from overseas. These were great experiences and genuinely opened up my eyes and made me realize what it is that I want in life in terms of a relationship.
The first ended because of his career as a quite high profile well known entertainer, and were our relationship discovered, it would have pretty much ruined or at the very least highly damaged his career in music and/or acting, since his main demographic or fan base is female in the whole "teen idol" way, which is what his career depends on. Thus, the only thing that made sense to us was to discontinue the relationship. And, while some may judge us as wrong or may call it intellectually dishonest for ending it for these types of reasons, I don't agree. Both of us were still trying to sort out the whole "guy/guy" thing, and the secrecy surrounding our relationship and the fear of causing significant career damage to his singing/acting future made it wrong to continue it. We remain great friends and we have no regrets. In my case (and probably his as well) it was a great eye-opener, and helped my crystallize what it is that I want in terms of a relationship, as did the second relationship that I mentioned above with the 21 year old from overseas.
As you can no doubt tell from this profile, I am still quite inexperienced but now totally and completely aware of what it is that I want. I am probably making the age preference a priority in part because of how awesome and comfortable it was both for me and for the2 individuals mentioned above that I had relationships with. Maybe this is in part because the only relationships that I have had with men were in this age group but I also have to say that it is probably also because of my overall youthful approach to life as well as the fact that it seems to me that relationships with people of differing ages can be really awesome, rewarding, and meaningful in so many ways, as each brings differing perspectives and experiences to the table. My whole life I have always had the closest of friendships with people that are either younger or older than me, and these have always been the best and most fulfilling friendships. Thus, it is I guess not surprising that the first (and up to now the only) guy/guy relationships that I have had were in a differing age category. It is also probably true that there are some guys that simply want to be with someone that has more life experience and is less likely to play "relationship games" that may be more common when both people are the same age.
I promised that I was going to write with total honesty in this profile and see where it leads. Regarding appearance, I am not putting a picture on here for2 reasons: first, due to my desire for discretion and secondly, because I want to only share that after building initial trust with someone. As I have written and as you can no doubt tell, this is all new to me and thus, there is an element of nervousness. I don't want to make this process any harder by worrying about having a picture floating around the Internet on a public site. In further honesty, because of my career and my work, it makes sense to me to approach the whole picture issue in this way. If it means that some people won't contact me then that's ok. I must follow my conscience in this regard while also knowing that those that do contact me will understand; in any event, they will get a picture soon enough after we start communicating with each other. Basic information includes the fact that I am white, masculine, blonde hair, green eyes, about6 feet tall, and weight proportionate and about 195 pounds.
I have no worries or no embarrassment about how I look, and I look fine, but I hope and trust that people will respect my honesty as expressed throughout this profile. And using discretion in this way helps to eliminate some worries, which allows me to focus on building trust with people as I get to know them. I will absolutely be happy to send pictures to anyone that I am emailing with after we build trust with each other, which just seems to me to be the right way to do it. Anyone that I am emailing and talking with that I find trustworthy will of course get pictures so that they know who they are talking with. (However, don't expect nude pictures; first of all, I've never taken any and secondly, it isn't my style to send those....similar to what I wrote above, I have no embarrassment whatsoever about my appearance but I am not the type to send pictures like that; it isn't my style or approach....)
It can be really hard to judge someone from a written profile, and I hope that I can convey at least a little bit about my heart, soul, and mind through these written words. I am not eager to be hurt or used in any way, and I am both nervous and excited about posting this. Since I pretty much have no real clue about this web site, I do worry about getting hurt by people that will write looking to take advantage of someone like me. So, my guard will probably be up a little bit at first and I don't want people to write to me if they think that they want to take advantage of someone. I will be very cautious and make certain that I avoid those that seek profit or monetary gain in place of a real and genuine relationship.
I would enjoy hearing from people that may have an interest in building a great relationship with someone that is exceptionally loving, caring, decent, and dedicated to other people and to the world as a whole. It would be very cool if it were to perhaps lead to meeting someone that can be the center of my attention and that I can eagerly share many exciting adventures of life with. Fortunately, this person can be just about anywhere in the USA and in fact the world, because I travel both domestically and internationally often. I am located in the United States and travel throughout America between our various offices and as mentioned, I also travel world frequently for business. Therefore, there are not too many geographical limitations when it comes to meeting the right person and thus, please contact me even if you live somewhere that may appear to be distant.
If you are looking for someone with a good heart and soul and that is among the most caring, good, energetic and charismatic people to be found, please write. I will gladly send you my email address by return. Take care and thank you very much.
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